i hate how people judge a person from what others say. grow up! better get your act straight before that person finds you and beats your ass up! just kidding :) but really, it’s not cool talking about people behind their backs. so what if the have a bad past. A LOT of good people had bad pasts. they changed because of their past. they don’t want that happened to other people. let them be them. by that i mean leave them the fuck alone! it’s not cool if you’re just putting your nose into their business. it’s their lives and not yours. just focus on yourself and the drama will subside. as soon as you talk about them, you pretty much just ruined their lives. but do you see them defeated? NO! because they’re stronger than you think. don’t try to bring someone down by talking about what they’ve done or what they’re doing. yes, people say your actions reflect on the person you are but have you ever thought about getting to know that person before judging them? how would you like it if someone was talking about you to other people and no one likes you? it hurts. 

if you play fire with fire, you’ll get burned. the person who gets burned is usually the one who starts the drama. riiiight? so save yourself the pain and stop. it’s not worth it. who knows. maybe you’ll be the one to blame if he or she will kill themselves. so think before you act. don’t go overboard. if you do, you’ll not only get burned, your life will be ruined all because you started something that wasn’t even your business.